We arrived Tuesday to spend time with my family at Lake Keowee. It's always good to catch up with my sister and nieces who we typically only see a couple of times during the year. Anna and Paige are always excited to see Channing and Riley for some bunkroom fun. Dad even picked up MORE crazy lights for their room and soon they were synching them to an app on their phones.
We did all the usual things: boating, tubing, swimming, paddle boarding, reading, watching movies, playing Uno, eating lots of good food, fishing, hanging out, etc.
One day we went over to hear about a non-profit rehab center that uses horses with its clients. Wild Hearts is about 20 minutes away and Dad has a contact over there that volunteers. We enjoyed hearing about all the great work they do as well as taking a tour. Of course, the horse friends were also a bonus.
The girls also inquired one night why we don't do Girls Week anymore. To be honest, the reason it stopped was kinda painful for me as well as not my choice and it was nice to hear it was missed. They went on and on about their tie dye t-shirts and the fun activities we did. These were always things I planned and spent time gathering because I liked making these memories with them. To know they were special to them really made my day. So, we all decided to make up for Girls Week and have a Girls Day instead.
We got out on the water early that morning to do all the tubing activity. And then after lunch we grabbed the materials needed to do tie-dye clothing, shaving cream fun and water balloon olympics. We also made it down to Pelicans for some frozen ice and then after some REALLY LOUD music in the car, we made it back home to do our tie-dye creations. The girls also went crazy with the shaving cream. Sidebar-I chose this as a toddler enrichment activity years ago. It's still one of their favorites and now they have totally teen-afied it. Goobers.
On Friday, we did some low-key things, but ended the day with a bang. Aaron made a low country boil with crab instead of crawfish (delicious) and we had the water balloon Olympics with the whole fam. Some how we managed to sneak a water balloon fight in there too.
While spending time with family is good, it's also sometimes difficult. I have been on a journey to learn about myself and how I can be healthy in environments where brokenness has caused and is causing collateral damage. More and more, I am thankful for the tools I have learned through our journey with Anna so I can apply them myself. A lot of times, I will post fun pictures and it makes it look like we had this perfect week when in reality it's far from perfect and sometimes very painful. I want to be honest about this. This side of heaven things are messy, but I'm thankful my hope is not in things of this world.



