This year we were with my family for Thanksgiving. We left on Monday afternoon and the girls were quickly whisked off to "Pictures with Santa," a fundraiser for Rotary which my dad is President of. They all wore ugly Christmas sweaters and what they didn't realize was that it was at a local pizza place and the Clemson students were not on break yet. So in they walk, only to be faced with a couple dozen college guys staring at them. Ha! The pictures were cute and worth it.
For the next few days we read books, played games, went for walks, did carboarding down the hill, decorated the bunk room for Christmas, went shopping, watched movies and prepped Thanksgiving day food. I worked with Channing, Paige and Anna to make all of the pies. Yum! The girls always make a list of things they want to accomplish while they are with their cousins and they definitely made a dent in the first couple of days.
My brother arrived Wednesday night and then it was full on Thanksgiving Day fun. Anna, Paige and Patrick were able to go out on their Thursday morning run which was the first time they have run since taking their break. I think the girls were getting a little twitchy. We watched the parade while Dad managed the turkey and a few sides in the kitchen. What I love about our meal is that everybody contributes a dish or two and by the end it's a delicious feast! If you don't cook anything, you do dishes. So it's a wonderful way for everybody to lend a hand. The meal this year turned out really good and we were all stuffed.
That evening we did Reindeer Games which Paige was in charge of because she won last time. Fortunately, her birthday murder mystery had some fun games for participants to do so Patrick used those to help her create the games this year. They were a hit and everybody had a great time! Dad ended up being the winner so we will plan for next year.
We also opened presents that evening. This year I suggested we all draw a name and then get that person an advent calendar that they can enjoy for the month of December. It turned out really cute and was an easy way to take care of gifts for everybody without things getting crazy.
On Friday, Aaron took the girls to Zootopia 2 and they did a little Black Friday shopping. I was a little disappointed because that's what I typically do with the girls, but I know they had a good time. I did much of my online shopping for Christmas and it feels good to have a lot of that marked off my list.
We headed back home to Teddy on Saturday after viewing some fun decorated Christmas trees for charity. Visiting my family has some very fun moments, but there's also a lot of hard. I'm learning how to navigate these difficult times while being anchored to my faith and compassion without being upended. It's been a journey of growth and I think one of the biggest things I'm thankful for during this season is my identity as a daughter of the King. Remembering Who loves me and to Whom I belong has been pivotal in not being swept under by the currents of navigating brokenness.


